You can learn a lot from observing betas, but nothing is more powerful than having been one and looking back. Hindsight is always 20/20. If you had girls and lost them, you can see what you did right and what you did terribly wrong. If you get frustrated from or can’t learn from mistakes, then give up now.
After my first girlfriend of over a year left me for some guy she had waited for to come back, I was devastated. Once I found out, I had her over for one last volcanic lay. Being the beta that I was, I begged her to come back to me not realizing that would only make it worse and give me no chance at all to actually get her back. She gave me pity sex and I made sure to do her harder than ever one last time.
I had always been the nice guy and what did that get me? A girl who cheated on me and lots of girls who wanted to be my friend. I remember in high school when I girl I liked once said to me:
I wish all guys were like you.
What the hell? I’m right here in front of you, take me! Nope, that’s not really what girls want and that puzzled the hell out of me. These are the alpha traits my rage forced me into:
- Having choices
- Pre-empting breakups
- Physical teasing by holding back
- Give hints about seeing other girls without the wet details
- If a girl offers to pay for something, just let her
- Never give gifts
- Take the sex, but still make her leave
Understanding that she was not coming back, I had a fit of desperate rage and was doing it doggy style with a new girl within a week. I didn’t like this girl very much, but kept her around for the sex until she pushed me to my limits. I then dumped her like last weeks garbage and suddenly she was willing to do anything to keep me around. I gave her a big fat ’no’ and that was the end of her. Why did that feel so good? What is this power flowing through my veins?
My animal rage after getting dumped that first time led me to have these alpha traits, but I was to nieve to understand them. I had no idea what I had done until I started reading about game a few years later. These alpha traits were offset by beta traits such as giving gifts, too many compliments and coming off as needy. Being an alpha and beta at the same time is very possible and because beta is what girls remember, you are in trouble.
I soon was seeing multiple girls at once not understanding the obvious fact that having options helps you not to care. You wont put one pussy on a pedestal because there are always others. After one particular first date I got the pull back when going in for the kiss. Then the girl left. A few minutes later I called another girl I had been on one date with, but hadn’t even kissed yet. She came over and we screwed like horny little rabbits. I was going to kiss a girl that day and the motivation drove me there. This was only the beginning…
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